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Lydia Graves

Graves

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Lydia Graves writes with creativity and charm. She's extremely focused on providing an immersive experience for guests and readers, allowing each word to be just as delectable as a nostalgic snack. With four years in F&B and over eight years of writing, she's able to whip up relevant yet captivating stories. Graves lives in NYC with her boyfriend, three dogs, and a very well-tended kitchen.

Articles by Graves:

The Little Restaurant That Couldn’t: A Server’s Tough Lesson in the Industry
Financial Wellness Feature

The Little Restaurant That Couldn’t: A Server’s Tough Lesson in the Industry

I moved to New York with a U-Haul and too much optimism. I found a job at a tiny, candlelit wine bar in Brooklyn, thinking I'd found my perfect place.…

Who is the Bitchy Waiter
Humor & Satire

Who is the Bitchy Waiter

Darron Cardosa, known as The Bitchy Waiter, took his F&B frustrations and turned them into a blog that resonated with servers everywhere. From viral posts to a one-man show and…

Drink Me
Financial Wellness

Drink Me

Dive into the "Traveling Bartenders" Facebook group, where bartenders find gigs, offer accommodations, and create a family-like community. Explore festivals, make friends, and embark on new adventures in this supportive…

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